Expanding Lives Through Person Centred Support: Lauren’s Story

Sometimes people think that living in care means having restrictions and missing out on normal life experiences. At Oakley House, we believe the opposite. We believe support should help people live full, happy, and meaningful lives based on what they enjoy and what matters most to them. Lauren’s story is a lovely example of how the right support can open doors and create new opportunities.

Lauren is a bright, friendly, and sociable person who absolutely loves music, dancing, and performing arts. Dancing makes Lauren happy and gives her a chance to express herself. Going out, meeting friends, and enjoying nightlife are very important to her and are a big part of who she is.

Before moving to Oakley House, Lauren used to attend Fab Club every Friday evening. It was a disco that ran from 7pm until 9pm and gave Lauren something exciting to look forward to each week. She loved being able to dance, socialise, and have fun with others. Sadly, the club had to close when funding stopped, and Lauren really missed it.

Staff at Oakley House understood how important this was to Lauren. They worked closely with her to find something similar so she could continue enjoying the things she loves. Lauren was introduced to the Living It Up club night, which provides fun and exciting social events for people living with disabilities and autism. The club supports the Stay Up Late #NoBedtime campaign, which encourages people receiving care to enjoy nights out and social activities just like anyone else.

Lauren was shown videos and information about different events. She was given time and support to decide what she wanted to attend. Lauren quickly chose the Living It Up club night, showing confidence and independence in making her own choice.

Going to the event meant Lauren would be staying out later than usual and not returning home until 11:30pm. Staff carefully planned how to support her safely. They saw this as a positive step, recognizing that sometimes taking safe, supported risks can help people enjoy life more and build confidence. Staff were happy to adjust their working patterns so Lauren could have this experience.

The night was a huge success. Lauren danced, laughed, and socialised with her peers, enjoying a fun night out. It was clear how much the experience meant to her. It helped boost her confidence, well-being, and sense of belonging.

This opportunity has also opened new possibilities for Lauren. Living It Up runs a performing arts school, which matches Lauren’s interests perfectly. Staff have spoken with Lauren, her mum, and her social worker about the possibility of her joining in the future, especially as she finds her current day placement less interesting. This shows how the staff continues to listen to Lauren and support her goals and dreams.

Lauren is now excited to attend another Living It Up event in February with three other people supported at Oakley House. This will help her build friendships, feel included, and continue enjoying new experiences.

At Oakley House, staff believe support should help people live their lives, not limit them. They work hard to help people try new things, follow their interests, and enjoy the same life experiences as everyone else.

Lauren’s story shows that with the right support, encouragement, and understanding, people receiving care can live happy, social, and fulfilling lives without barriers holding them back.